As Indian culture and our values , i do love welcoming guest and also believe in the “अतिथि दैवो भव:”
Summer vacations and Diwali are the season of welcoming guests 😛. To help mom in making tasty food for guests , let them drive to various places in our city, shopping ,to entertain their kids etc etc are the basic job I need to do and I enjoy that 🤓.
The difficult one is to communicate with guest. I remember frequent questions or conversation take place formally 😓 ( I think everyone is master in this , you have to be 😂 vrna band baj jani haii 😆)
1. Beta, aap kitane bade ho gaye ho 😮 ?
Me~ obviously Aunty, we met 3 years back😊.(and do ‘charansparsh’ jay shree krishna aunty ☺)
2. Beta , u have gain some weight ,why don’t u join gym ? U will look good after that 🤔 .
Me~ okay Aunty will try to manage, I have a bit busy schedule 😊(😏😏 )
3. Itana kya busy rehate ho kabhi milane bhi nahi aate ?😯
Me~ Aunty wo classes and office 😟
Aunty ~ ohhhh muje bhaiyaa bol rahe the tum toh online hoti ho pura din 🤔
Me~ nahi aunty wo kam hota haii office groups and all 🙄😏😑
4. U were doing CA na ? Ho gaye CA ?
Me~ Nahi Finals me hu 😎
Aunty~ last year bhi finals hi bola tha
Me ~ aunty I’m doing article ship 😊( i usually don’t take risk to explain CA procedures and course)
Aunty~kya dete haii salary ?
Me~ Aunty its training 😒
Aunty ~Achha fir bhi 5/10K toh dete honge na ?
Me~ No (😞😣😏)
4.padhai toh hoti rahegi when u r getting married ?
Me~ Aunty I’m only 21 will think…
And Aunty interrupts~ you know my Priya (i was like who’s she 🙄) , she get married last year , Her in laws are too good , aur hamari bachhi ki to kya tarif hoti haii …
Me~ ohh great aunty 😊 food is ready lets have food …(jan chhuti shadi k topic se 😉)
While having food question 5th arrives ,
5. Have U made this panir sabji ? My Priya cooks too good 😄her panir bhurji 😋ahhaa tooo delicious 😚 you also cook nice ha beta😊
Me~Thank you Aunty but vahini made it☺
Aunty ~ U don’t know cooking ????(he ma mataji vale expression )
Me~ No 😕 (what’s big deal, will learn later)
Aunty ~ U should learn it , Shadi kon karega ?
Me ~okay Aunty (groom wants a wife or cook ?)
And after finishing 2 plates panir sabji Aunty notice my earrings
6. Aunty~ beautiful earrings, khan se li?
Me ~ Lal darvaja aunty ☺☺
Aunty ~ ohhh wo toh lut lete haii tum baccho ko shopping sense hi nahi 😏 .
Me~ 😲😖😕(inhe kon bataye it has been 6 year I’m doing shopping.)
After all that chit chat and gossips sessions, aunty take leave to all and we all are like ,
“Aunty ji ,fir se jarur aana 😃, bas aapka ashirvaad bana rahe aur kya chahiye “
Aunty~ ” Ab to bitiya ki shadi me hi aayenge hm , Damad ji se milne ”
Me~ 🤔😮😓😒😖😕😏( last time bhi esa hi bola tha 3 months back)
Well all above conversation are normal to all of us. And somewhere we all has gone through the same. I am talkative person and i do love talking to people but when , the comparison made with some unknown Priya , its bit demotivating for all. Except those being host is dam fun 😍.
Asking for apologies if if someone finds that I’m making fun.
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