Journey of #AtoZChallenge 

Here is the last day of the #AtoZChallenge and this post is the collection of all my posts.

Theme reveal post : https://thenikitadongare.wordpress.com/2017/04/01/atozchallange-diciplinary-step-for-me/

1. Acceptance: https://thenikitadongare.wordpress.com/2017/04/01/acceptance/

2. Believe : https://thenikitadongare.wordpress.com/2017/04/02/believe-atozchallenge-2/

3. Conclude the conflicts : https://thenikitadongare.wordpress.com/2017/04/04/conclude-the-conflicts-atozchallenge/

4. Dreamy Dates : https://thenikitadongare.wordpress.com/2017/04/05/dreamy-datesatozchallenge/

5. Expressive : https://thenikitadongare.wordpress.com/2017/04/06/expressive-atozchallenge/

6. Friends and family: https://thenikitadongare.wordpress.com/2017/04/07/friends-family-atozchallenge/

7. Gifts : https://thenikitadongare.wordpress.com/2017/04/07/gifts-atozchallenge/

8. Honesty : https://thenikitadongare.wordpress.com/2017/04/10/honesty-atozchallenge/

9. Insecurities : https://thenikitadongare.wordpress.com/2017/04/11/insecurity-atozchallenge/

10. Just go for it : https://thenikitadongare.wordpress.com/2017/04/12/%e2%80%8bjust-go-for-it-atozchallenge/

11. Know each other : https://thenikitadongare.wordpress.com/2017/04/13/know-each-other-%e2%9d%a4-atozchallenge/

12. Love letter https://thenikitadongare.wordpress.com/2017/04/14/love-letter-%f0%9f%92%8c-atozchallenge/

13. Missunderstanding : https://thenikitadongare.wordpress.com/2017/04/15/1911/

14 No to negativity: https://thenikitadongare.wordpress.com/2017/04/17/no-to-negativity-atozchallenge/
15. Opinions: https://thenikitadongare.wordpress.com/2017/04/18/opinion-atozchallenge/
16 . Priorities : https://thenikitadongare.wordpress.com/2017/04/19/priorities-atozchallenge/

17. Quality conversations : https://thenikitadongare.wordpress.com/2017/04/20/quality-conversations-%f0%9f%92%ac-atozchallenge/

18. Realise and Reward: https://thenikitadongare.wordpress.com/2017/04/21/realize-reward-%e2%9d%a4-atozchallenge/

19. Surprises : https://thenikitadongare.wordpress.com/2017/04/22/surprises-%e2%9d%a4-atozchallenge/

20.Troubles : https://thenikitadongare.wordpress.com/2017/04/24/troubles-atozchallenge/

21.Us : https://thenikitadongare.wordpress.com/2017/04/25/us-atozchallenge/

22.waiting : https://thenikitadongare.wordpress.com/2017/04/27/waiting-atozchallenge/

23. Variations : https://thenikitadongare.wordpress.com/2017/04/26/variations-atozchallenge/

24.Ex past to present : https://thenikitadongare.wordpress.com/2017/04/28/%e2%80%8bex-%f0%9f%92%94-past-to-present-atozchallenge/

25. You : https://thenikitadongare.wordpress.com/2017/04/29/you-%f0%9f%98%8d-atozchallenge/

26 zestful : https://thenikitadongare.wordpress.com/2017/04/30/zestful-%e2%9d%a4-live-and-love-%e2%9d%a4-atozchallenge/

Before I conclude, I want to thanks some people 😇

Thank you #blogchatter for this opportunity and Chandni mam for your guidance.(http://chandnimoudgil.com/about-2/ )

Thank you readers for showing love and fabulous support . It not gonna work without you.

Thank you Akshay Dada for collecting all Links for me and making this Post happen.

Thank you Shree and Shona for your support ❤

Last and important one Pinakin, thank you for constant support and improvements you made. Your support means a lot ❤(https://mynorthenlights.wordpress.com)

Zestful ❤ live and Love ❤ #AtoZChallenge 

Zestful , means full of Life !

It’s the last and 26th post, we talked about lots of things, do and don’t and many other things. I got lots of comments about it so it becomes an learning experience for me too.

Today is Z and I come to know the word, Zestful i.e. being full of Life.

Here I want to say , learn to live , don’t rush behind the things , you are not supposed to be perfectionist so dude chill and live your life.

Now you must be thinking why I am being philosophical about life and not talking about long distance relationship 🙄. Well you can’t love someone else until you don’t love yourself and you can’t make another one’s life better until you are suffocated by own life.

Being in relationship, specifically in long distance relationship isn’t about those four hour you spend with each other often in year , it also about the life apart from that four hour’s. I’m not saying that messed up person can’t have happy lovelife , they have but their love life is also messed up.

Here in the end of this challenge I don’t have any advice for your love life rather I don’t want to talk about it , here I want to say be happy with yourself , thanks for the blessings you have in your life , little less complaining , some more smiles , being positive, and most importantly fall for yourself too. Loving isn’t always about someone else, it’s sometimes about yourself too.

While having someone in your life , don’t panic about if things are not working, it’s okay if it don’t work , all you can do is just enjoy what you have , if you can’t have the perfect date in your favorite restaurant , it’s okay, you can spend time on roadside dhaba , after all it’s not about money , class , standards, people’s comments, log Kya kahenge , or about anything else , it’s about Only you and your partner ❤.

Life is going to be tough , so don’t waste time in sorry I can’t be the good partner for you, instead spend effort being good one.

Ufff , before I start write a  book on philosophy of life here ,I conclude it here.

Live your life and love your Life ❤

Thank you.

You 😍 #AtoZChallenge

With you, without you!

Well, there can be only two situations, either you are with your partner ❤ or not😞.

Being human beings, we have the tendency to mark negative things first so as happens in relationship. When something goes wrong, we started counting negatives, and in the long distance relationship excuses end at ‘I have to handle all things without you’.

Basically, we forget while arguing that, your partner is also facing all things alone, he’s managing without you. It’s the normal thing, that they can’t be physically there and maybe sometimes not even emotionally! Reasons can be various, but it happens. And as a frequency of without you increase, the relationship enters a danger zone. Further, this kind of fights have no end results or may end up at breaking up.

I know it’s tough to manage, but it’s not impossible. You just need to be little stronger. Further, there’s wise saying, count your blessings. So enjoy the moment when he’s with you, and according to me, there’s no logic in spending your valuable time on some arguments.

 

Appreciate when he’s with you 😍.

Thank you for reading ❤

​Ex 💔 – past to present #AtoZChallenge 

Well today is the word x and all I can remember is ex relationship.

It’s normal that people have past , some secrets , few painful realizations and life learning lessons. So you and your partner can have , it’s not that complicated but we humans have some extra ordinary ability to make things complicated. Most of the time people hide that they had a relationship, now usually in LDR , your relation is based on the trust and honesty and if you hide something like this from your partner it’s going to be disaster , trust me !

Here I have to say two things, First to partner who has relationship, my dear, you didn’t did crime , so don’t hide it. Don’t regret about it because, it is the exact thing you wanted that time. Now , you have started your love life at new point, make sure that your girl /man knows about it.

Further, one more important thing , if your partner accept you with your past with big heart, make sure that you don’t compare things or don’t say ‘you know my ex would love this ‘ . It simply hurts , none is exceptional. So it’s the past let it be the past.

To other partner, sweets , just because your partner had relationship, it doesn’t mean that he is not loving you , there can be sufficient reason that it didn’t work and he or she is with you now.  May be you are not his first but you can be last and forever. So it was just story , where your partner was hero😉. Appreciate your partner to tell you the truth.

Having a past is not a problem, it’s too simple thing , but people make things tough by involving the past into present.
So trust your partner ❤ believe in the love you share 😘

Stay blessed and keep reading 💛

Waiting #AtoZChallenge

Waiting 😑

The word waiting sounds painful and sometimes irritating too.

Usually when you are at distance, waiting is part of your life. The reasons can be various such as you guys may have different schedule , you guys belong to different time zone or anything else.

Most of the time it happens that you are in bad mood or you need to talk with your partner or you have something important to share with him, but he’s busy in working and you couldn’t get reply. Many times it happen that you guys have planned a meet but one of you got some emergency and the other one keep waiting.

Waiting hurts a lot , you need to wait to see your partner, to hug him , even sometimes for replies too. Most of the time waiting ruins mood and leads to fights, and I know this waiting types feeling so I’m not gonna say that you shouldn’t be sad or make your mood bad.

Here I can suggest is adjust your schedules, as you guys know when you are free talk on that time, so at least you can have one peaceful conversation.

Well waiting hurts, but precious thing takes some time. So instead of making faces , enjoy your waiting sessions too.

Thank you for reading ❤

Variations #AtoZChallenge

LDR brings lots of variations with it , you may find thousands of differences between you and your partner.

The variations vary from time zone to taste, culture, religion, traditions, behavioral habits or it could be anything. In all the variations , the cultural variation affects the most.Its normal thing but in some communities or some places it still have huge impact  such as if you belong to different religions , you may have to face problems about it or any gesture have different meaning in both cultures. There can be lot of different things but you have one similarity that’s love, so you can solve the differences. The movie 2 states is the best example of how two families and culture have huge variations.

Here I want to say, don’t let differences ruin the essence of your beautiful journey where you are sharing families and love.  According to me its can turn into adventures and fun to learn new culture, if you want to do so.  Being a partner, it’s the best time where you can support your partner, by telling them about your culture, festivals and many more things. As I belong to two cultures, I find it fantastic, you have lots of celebration, two cuisine and twice fun.

You can’t erase the variations, but you can always celebrate the differences.

Thank you for reading .

US #AtoZChallenge

Us ❤

Isn’t it the most beautiful word, obviously it is ❤ when you and I turn into us things seems prettier 😍.

As every relationship, you and your partner also want to be together forever, no doubts. But when people says that long distance relationships don’t work when it come to real life. Somewhere it’s truth, let me correct it’s half truth. The relationship fails because people can’t change with the changing circumstances.

Most of the time it happens that when lovers turn into husband/wife or got engaged, things change accordingly, you guys are now not just a boyfriend, girlfriend with your virtual world,  you are companions who have lots of responsibilities and things to look after, so there’s chance that you don’t carry out the same lovely relationship. Here all you need is little adjustment and Faith in your partner.

So guys just because someone else said that LDR won’t work, don’t stop dreaming about your story.

It’s about you and your partner, so believe in word  US ❤